Exposure to Antisemitism and Offensive Humour #becauseoffacebook
I have recently notices an offending remark made by one of my facebook friends (old work acquaintance) as a post comment between him and another non-Jewish friend. The message read 'you crafty Jew'. Knowing that my friend was probably not an Anti-semite, I sent him a private message asking for an explanation, to which my friend replied 'it was a private joke taken out of TV South Park'.
As my friend lives in Glasgow, I told him that I assumed he would not like to go to the pub and take the mickey at his mate's Christian affiliation, certainly not in public. At which point, my friend felt very strongly that his friend would 'understand that it is a joke' and that 'the problem with religion is its inability to laugh at itself'.
This problem links to the never-ending debate concerning 'the fine line between legitimate humour and being offensive'. However, I think that my personal example illustrates a deeper issue with social media and the continuous expansion of popular humour boundaries represented by shows such as Southpark, which by-the-way is legitimate in my opinion.
The problem starts when people such as my ex-facebook friend (he apparently felt very strongly about me trying to restrict his abilities to make jokes) taking humour out of context. While Southpark or any other ground breaking niche and even popular programme use arguably offensive humour to create a satire or make a point (e.g. Borat) my friend had posted a sentence which can only be perceived as a joke by himself and perhaps his friend. This is even before we get into to a debate on whether it is legitimate to copy self-deprecating humour (someone making fun of their own Jewishness or their community e.g. Woody Allen, Philip Roth etc.) if the person making that comment and the person on the receiving end are of a completely different background and therefore ignorant to the full meaning of their slur (i.e. the aren't Jews).
However there is another obvious issue here, namely that people are using facebook posts without realising that their conversation is public. So as you increase the number of people that are exposed to your posts (your facebook friends at the very least) you increase the number of interpretation that such a joke can have.
While my ex-facebook friend intended to copy a joke, and while his friend might have taken it as a joke because they are both Southpark fans, and whilst I assumed that my he was not an Anti-semite because of our acquaintance, his 13 year-old brother or a guy he met in the pub once reading the very same post might had a completely different interpretation.





